If you’re in a state of longing for love, it means you’re stuck.
Usually, when we go after something, we’re engaged in an energy that’s forward moving. This energy is loaded with ideas, hope, & intention. Then, after a while, when there’s little outcome, our energy wanes and we begin to wonder if we can really pull it off? Can we really attract to us what we want or need – like a soul mate? After all, we tried and tried. And nothing happened. Instead of attracting a soul mate, we wind up feeling unempowered and doubting.
Here’s something that may turn your longing state into a state of powerful attraction.
Have you ever noticed the type of energy people carry around finding their soul mate?
Some people hold their energy in a loud place. They let people know they want a soul mate. They talk about it a lot. Their energy is mostly carried in an outward, in an excited & nervous state. It’s a heightened emotional state but not necessarily a heightened vibratory state. These people may be continually occupied with the notion of finding their soul mate, but it’s more like they’re spinning their wheels, marching in place, not advancing.
What’s wrong with this picture? It’s as though they believe that if they hope for and long for something hard enough and long enough that somehow this will bring it about. This is actually a state of helplessness, pitifully lacking power. You have a choice to advance from this place and to experience a new realm of what’s possible in love.
First of all, soul mates are soul based. The soul is your highest vibration state. It’s the one who knows. You carry it around. It has internal wisdom and power about love. It has the compass and GPS to love. Consider the soul’s energy. It isn’t wandering or doubtful. When it’s ready, it quietly gets into place and does powerful things inwardly that starts sending out the word to the universe that it’s ready to meet up with its match. This is different from the world’s way of getting things done.
Here’s how the soul works.
When you listen to your soul, something happens to your outer energy as well. This is what makes a difference in attracting. So rather than just randomly fishing for a “somebody” to fill your heart and life, your soul (if it’s in charge) is silently signaling. It remembers what it most needs and wants. It’s intention is divine. There’s deep purpose to what it attracts.
When it’s deeply ready for its mate, here’s what the soul does:
- “Already Full.” The soul recalls the deeper, invisible layer of love that is not absent, but very much present. It abides there in this presence of love, feeling it and calling it up at will – & repeatedly throughout each day and evening. This is the soul’s way of attracting from its highly attractive state of fullness rather than emptiness. Start attracting by getting in touch with your fullness state of love. Reach for it. Let this deepen within you. Though it’s an internal practice, the outward energy is powerful to attract.
- “Open Heart.” The soul feels the joy of opening its heart to love. As parents anticipate the arrival of a new baby, their hearts open to greet the new soul. Rather than being defensive about being hurt “again,” they know that this loved one is a blessing and they regard it as one. Every day, their hearts prepare to welcome the new loved one, unafraid of what is to come. Trusting that the outcome will bring deep life meaning to everyone. Trusting that as problems arise, love will be big enough to meet each one. This is how the soul regards its anticipated mate, as one who brings a blessing, unafraid.
- “The Knowner Within.” Rather than living outside your authority of knowing what you deserve and being able to call it in, start now by rising to the place of observing your life from the perspective of being “one who knows.” In Buddhist practice, there’s an effort to leave the unmindful patterns, the judging mind, & the fearful inner critic. This clears room for the emergence of pure consciousness. (Therein lies your soul!) Allow the gaps between your thoughts and breath to bring you back to your true self who experiences its true love. Discover who’s the one living in your body. Don’t allow your real self to be hijacked.
Can you see how deeply the soul carries its message? How deeply it feels and lives its intention? Do you see the soul’s vibration & energy, quietly powerful?
This is what you need to do to attract your soulmate.
Make it a practice. Be patient, willing, dedicated. Like the seeds of spring bring the inevitable bud to bloom, your seeds will also bring to you the beauty of your soul’s visibility through the eyes of your soul mate. And you will peer into their eyes and see their soul as well. This is the heightened state soul mates enjoy – being seen and loved for who they truly are.
You can start now by practicing. And while you do, be alert to lower energies that would take you back to a helpless state of longing, wishing, & feeling unempowered. This is not your destiny. Your destiny is love!
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